27 Sep
Ever since my maid went back to Indonesia for good, I engaged a house cleaning service agent to “spring clean” my house weekly. On the first day, 2 Indonesian cleaners came and I wasn’t satisfied with their work. They washed the toilet without any brushing, just poured water and that’s it! They wiped the cabinets leaving behind strands of wool, sweeping the floor without sweeping under the tables and beds! I almost fell off the chair as I observed how they worked! I kept quiet, in fact I didn’t make any comment / complaints. When they finished their work, I gave them 2 packets of biscuits and made 2 cups of milo for them. When their employer came to pick them up, I told her that I want the same cleaners to clean my house the following week.
The following week came. Same cleaners came. I just sat back and observed them. To my surprise, they worked diligently, much, much better than their first visit! I chatted with them as they worked, found out about their hometowns, their likes and dislikes, their families etc. I literally “make friend” with them. Before they left, I gave them cookies and the following week, their work got better and better! I believe that had I complained to their employer, or had I requested different cleaners and expected them to do a better job, I may still have to “endure” their “chin-chai” cleaning attitude. Their job gets better each week. I guess my little “bribe” pays off after all!
3 Responses for "A Small Gesture Makes A Huge Difference"
Yek Nee, how I wish my friend can see this. He’s such a perfectionist and has such “high” standards, he criticizes everything and everyone who does not meet his requirements. He does it at work, at home, and with his friends.
The unfortunate thing here is that he’s actually a nice fellow, but he just cannot see that he’s de-motivating people by constantly scrutinising every little flaw of the other person. In his eyes, he’s trying to get them to be better….sigh.
The only reason I can emphatize with him is because I used to be just like him. I am just so so lucky to have been taught to “step out” of myself and “see” my mistakes, and to have been given the chance to change.
Thank you for posting the above. It’s a reminder to me to give that unfriendly cashier a smile and tell her she’s looking great today, yes!
Ivy, I can relate to your friend because that was exactly how I was, a long, long time ago, critize, condemn was my “hobby” then.. I used to have a very, very high expectation of everyone, everything around me, to the extent that if someone put my pencil the other way round in my pencil box, I would scream! Yes, I have since changed, and I learnt that we can never change or make perfect a person (perfect as in our own eyes), because no human being are perfect, not me, not you..
Ha ha ha…so you used to get stressed over the way a pencil is put huh. Yeah, I’ve been there too…..silly us, getting mad & stressed over such little things, the only thing we managed to achieve was adding a few more strands of grey hair on our heads!
Anyhow, glad that that’s in the past!
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